6.19.2014

A Note for Worship Leaders...We Are Shepherds

It’s amazing to me that this blog could mean something to anyone, especially someone possibly sitting hundreds of miles away. And more amazing that it might mean different things to different people.

It’s somewhat like our a worship leader's role. Looking out at 100 or 500 or 4,000 people and hoping that God somehow touches each person’s heart in a unique way, even though they experience the same thing. And realizing that each service plan, each word, each thought, is like a “personal note” God has given us to share.

I think we forget that sometimes. We sing our 3 1/2 songs and sit down. The thought of sharing where we’ve messed up, scheduling silence, interjecting our own thoughts, creating space, explaining the new song, passing along a Scripture…it’s just too much for us. The result? We miss our chance to pastor our people. To shepherd them.

Truth is…our calling is to shepherd our people. To be much more than song leaders, chord changers, harmony singers, string strummers, or crowd motivators. But we get stuck. Or scared. Or complacent. I know I do.

So what do we do? Honestly, we could talk about that answer forever. But for now, here’s two starter ideas for us:

First, plug in with people. It’s easy to play our songs and run. Instead, stand in the lobby and meet the people (even in big churches!). Learn the stories, the struggles, the victories. Be as personally connected as possible.

Second, block out the time in your schedule to think and pray. Think through each moment of your service plan. And pray that somehow, God would reach the poor, the rich, the lonely, the depressed, the recently unemployed, the new mom, the widow, the divorced father, the stripper, the hurting, the lost, the prodigal, the first-time-scared-out-of-his-mind-guest, the 50-yr-bored-church-veteran, the 85-year-old-fired-up-woman…all at the same time.

Hope this helps you. Or gives you something to think about. If you're looking to unpack this more than I did in this blog (WAY more), check out the Experience Conference. It would be well worth your time.

Hope to see you in September at Experience! But until then, let’s shepherd our people week in and week out.

6.11.2014

Summer 2014: Listen more, talk less

I'm excited for this summer.

Going to the pool. Heading to Florida for a vacation. Enjoying time with my family and friends. Doing birthday parties, the 4th of July parade, two VBS weeks, and countless weekend services.

But what I'm most excited is living out the things God is teaching me.

One such thing: listen more, talk less.

Did you know I'm a talker? If you don't know me, I am :). As a talker, I must consciously work on listening, all the time. I've been working on this for years, so this isn't new. And I think I've gotten better. I hope so!

But summer is a good time to zoom out, see where you're at, and try to make a leap forward.

You see, there's always room to grow; in everything we do. I can become a better listener. I can work harder on speaking words that give life, encouragement, growth. I can think about what I'm going to say before I say it.

I don't think I'll talk less, or become an introvert, but maybe that's not what God needs (although I'm sure in some situations that will be true!).

Instead, I must continue to grow in the thing I've known for a long time...it's not just listening that matters, it's listening. Really hearing the other person. Listening for God's voice in the wisdom of others. Not just checking my "listen to someone today" box, but really hearing them.

That's my goal. I'm fired up. It gets me pumped for summer.

I hope you're looking forward to this summer too. Maybe God is teaching you about something besides listening. Figure out what it is and take a premeditated leap before September rolls around.